Key takeaways
- Every NICU has its own rules about what can come to the bedside. Check with your unit before you bring anything for your baby.
- Pack for yourself first: documents, chargers, pumping supplies, water, and snacks.
- A front-opening top makes skin-to-skin (kangaroo) care easier.
- Clean hands protect your baby. Wash before you touch your baby, and before you pump.
This page is general information, not medical advice. Every baby is different — talk with your baby’s NICU team or pediatrician about what is right for your family.
Check with your unit first
Many NICUs limit what can be brought to the bedside, and the rules differ from hospital to hospital. KidsHealth advises checking with the nurse before bringing toys, decorations, or other items into your baby’s space. If they’re allowed, they should be easy to clean, so no stuffed animals. Some hospitals let parents tape pictures to the outside of the incubator. KidsHealth.
So the list below is mostly for you, the parent. For anything meant for your baby, check with your unit.
Hand hygiene matters most of all. KidsHealth notes that everyone who comes into the NICU must wash their hands before they enter, and March of Dimes says clean hands help protect your baby and other babies from serious infections. March of Dimes. The CDC calls soap and water the best way to get rid of germs in most situations. When soap and water aren’t available, use a hand sanitizer with at least 60% alcohol. CDC. A small sanitizer for the car or your bag is handy, but follow your unit’s handwashing routine at the bedside.
Documents, insurance card, and chargers
Keep your ID and insurance card with you. You may be calling your insurer from the hallway, and you’ll need your baby’s information to add them to your plan. St. Luke’s notes you may need your baby’s birth certificate and Social Security number to sign up. St. Luke’s. Our guide to paying for a NICU stay covers the deadlines.
A long charging cord and a small power bank help in case the outlet isn’t close to your chair. Earbuds let you take calls or listen to something calming without disturbing other families.
Pumping supplies
If you’re pumping, ask the unit what it provides (pump, kits, containers, labels) and what you should bring from home. Pack a pumping or nursing bra, nursing pads, and a water bottle. Our pumping guide for NICU moms covers more.
The CDC recommends washing your hands with soap and water before each use and cleaning pump parts as soon as possible after pumping. For babies born prematurely, under 2 months old, or with weakened immune systems, it recommends sanitizing pump parts at least once a day. Follow the manufacturer’s instructions and your hospital’s practices. CDC.
Comfort and clothes for skin-to-skin
If your baby is ready for skin-to-skin (kangaroo) care, wear something that opens down the front. The American Academy of Pediatrics says to “simply wear clothing that opens down the front.” HealthyChildren.org. During skin-to-skin, your baby is usually dressed in just a diaper and a hat, placed on your chest under your shirt, with the shirt loosely closed over them for warmth. KidsHealth. Read more in our guide to kangaroo care in the NICU.
Hospital temperatures vary, so layers help. Comfortable shoes, lip balm, and hand lotion make long days easier. Ask your unit whether scented products are OK. Bring any medications you take, and if you’re recovering from a birth, ask your own care team what you need.
Snacks and water
It’s easy to forget to eat when you’re watching monitors. KidsHealth puts it simply: when you take care of yourself, you’ll be more rested and better able to care for your baby. KidsHealth. Keep a refillable water bottle and snacks that don’t need a fridge in your bag. Ask your unit where you can eat and drink, and whether there’s a fridge for parents. Policies vary, so check yours.
A notebook
A simple notebook helps you keep track of your baby’s weight, feeding changes, names of nurses and doctors, and the questions that come to you at 2 a.m. Bring it to rounds. Our questions to ask the NICU team list is a good place to start.
Printable NICU bag checklist
Print this out and check off items as you pack. Cross off anything your unit doesn’t allow.
NICU bag checklist
Check with your unit about what can be brought to the bedside.
Documents & phone
- Photo ID
- Insurance card (yours, and your baby’s once you have it)
- List of phone numbers: NICU, insurer, employer HR
- Phone charger with a long cord
- Small power bank
- Headphones or earbuds
Pumping
- Pump and pump parts, if the unit asks you to bring your own
- Spare pump parts
- Nursing bra or pumping bra
- Nursing pads
- Nipple cream
- Milk storage containers and labels the unit provides or approves
- Water bottle to sip while pumping
Comfort & clothes
- Front-opening top or button-down shirt for skin-to-skin
- Layers: a cardigan or zip-up hoodie
- Comfortable pants and supportive shoes
- Socks or slippers
- Unscented lip balm and hand lotion
- Hair ties, glasses, contact lens case
- Your own medications
Food & water
- Refillable water bottle
- Snacks that keep without a fridge
- A little cash or a card for the cafeteria
For the long days
- Notebook and pen for questions and updates
- Book, e-reader, or something to knit
- Family photo (ask before taping it near the bed)
- Change of clothes, toothbrush, and toiletries for long stays
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You don’t have to pack everything at once. If a friend or family member asks how they can help, hand them this list and let them bring a refill of snacks, a fresh change of clothes, or the charger you left at home. Small, specific jobs are often the easiest for people to say yes to. Our guide on how to help a friend with a baby in the NICU has more ideas you can share.
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